“I love having teens!” I said this to a young mom recently who told me how frustrated she was when people told her, “Just enjoy these years when they were young because it wouldn’t be fun when they were teens.” She sighed and said to me, “I wish people would stop declaring such negativity about my children’s future!”
I couldn’t “amen” it fast enough! And I loved to share with her how much I love having teens. Sure, we have tough moments and days. Sure, there are hormones and controversies. But overall, I just love having teens!
I love our deep discussions and our ridiculous inside jokes. I love watching them spread their wings and stick out their necks. I love learning from their perspectives and having them teach me how to use electronics and play video games (I’m working on learning to play Rocket League now and I’m terrible at it, but I’m having a blast trying to spot out!)
One of the best aspects of having teens is that our house has a constant flow of other teens who come to hang out. I want to pretend they are all mine – and I love hearing their raucous laughter fill our house, I can’t get enough of our late-night discussions, and my heart is so happy to watch friendships develop and deepen as they also consume. Lots of fast food together. (What makes all teens love Spicy Doritos, Takis, Sour Candy, and Oreos?? I see the food groups they’re going to be putting out and plowing through, and I just cringe at the thought of how it feels to have all that met in my stomach!)
Young Moms: Don’t let anyone tell you that your teenage years are going to be this awful, awful time! Yes, you will need Jesus like never before, but instead of fearing Him, I encourage you to look up to Him! Practice staying up late, getting used to a lot of opening your hands and letting go of trust in God, maybe stock up on Spicy Doritos…then get ready for a wild, cool trip to step back and watch your kids walk into adulthood! It’s a great ride with lots of beauty and laughter on the way, if you have eyes to see the gifts and goodness out there!
On this week’s episode of the podcast, Jesse and I talked more about how what you seek is usually what you see and how this frames how you seek to approach life. We also talk about the books we read, a tip that works well for smoother summer days, try Jui Jitsu, Sudoku, and more!
In this episode:
[0:32] – I surprised Jesse by participating in my Instagram project live while recording the broadcast
[2:04] We talk about why you should always be ready for video when doing a radio interview and why we don’t do our podcast as a live video broadcast.
[5:28] Today’s topic is about why you should announce positivity in your life.
[6:54] – come back to Previous episode of the podcast about engagement.
[8:23] What saved my life this week was writing daily lists for our kids.
[11:41] – Jesse said he was trying out Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.
[14:47] – I’ve been listening to the audiobook Orphan’s tale by Pam Jenov
[18:47] – Why Jesse has been doing so many Sudoku puzzles lately.
[22:34] Many young mothers fear the thought of their children becoming teenagers.
[23:53] – You get what you expect from life!
[26:12] – The opportunity to see our children grow up is exciting and an educational experience for everyone
[30:12] Parenting is about relying on and loving your children, as I discuss in my book.
[31:19] Start by declaring positivity in your life!
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